Grief

Sometimes the news comes quick. Sometimes the news comes slow. No matter how or when it comes, grief travels in the wake of the news. Grief is heavy, weighty, a burden, especially when it involves someone deeply loved. Grief is not meant to be carried alone. It’s too heavy and may last a while—and that’s ok. That’s what family and friends are for, to share the load. Jesus stood outside the tomb of his friend and wept but He did not weep alone. It was a deep, human moment. “ Blessed are those who mourn, for they shall be comforted ” (Matt 5:4). If anyone knows how we feel in grief, it’s Him. But His grief did not linger long, as at the mention of his name, Lazarus came forth. We are not meant to dwell in grief, but should leave room enough for it. Let it run its course. Like the song says, “ Every Storm Runs Out Of Rain .” Another song says, “ The storm We will dance as it breaks The storm It will give as it takes And all of our pain is washed away Don't cry or be afraid Some things...

Save Yourself Some Pain

"You've endured countless troubles--all from not letting your ruling reason do the work it was made for--enough already!" (Marcus Aurelius, Meditations 9.26)

There's this funny little feature on my computer called, "stickies." A little program that allows me to put "sticky notes" on my screen to remind myself to do something. I also have a pile of sticky notes, but use them to leave side notes on documents, reminders for someone else, so to speak.

Over a thousand years ago, Emperor Marcus Aurelius left himself something like a sticky note in the above quote. He was able to recognize when he might very well have been the cause of problems he was experiencing, so he left a note to remind himself that enough is enough.

There's this thing called a brain and that brain uses a thing called "reason." Specifically, "ruling reason." In other words, a line has been drawn--that's the rule. We might call it "conscience" which in itself is a fascinating word ("con"= "with" and "science" = "knowledge").

Save yourself some pain. Don't drive yourself nuts with groundless fears, things that have not happened. Living with anxiety leads to a stampede of mind--an unbridled, out of control herd of disjointed ideas. The outcome is frustration, sickness, even greed. And if you've gotten yourself into a painful situation, into trouble, there is no need to keep going. Stop. Resolve the situation, deal with the consequences, learn and don't be so foolish to do it again.

Foolishness is the bully that grabs the other kids hands and says, "stop hitting yourself!" Fight back!

Reason can keep one out of trouble. If one knows to do good and does not do it, then to him it is evil, "sin." 

Our brain functions according to design and conscience ("with knowledge") helps keep perspective on what is good. So save yourself some pain. 

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