Update

 Once upon a time , someone asked me if I would be happy working a job that was not at the university. Since my position at the university closed in 2020, I found myself doing exactly that— working in jobs not at the university. It has been a very difficult transition.  Recently, things shifted quickly and in unexpected ways. The short version is that I am leaving the hotel which I am currently working, having taken a position at another.  The longer version of the story is that I stopped by to see my good friend and former GM at his new hotel. While I was visiting with him, one of the owners came out and introduced himself and we got to talking. After a few minutes, he said he wanted me to meet his brother. Our conversation turned into a job interview and 48 hours later I accepted a new position as front desk, manager and assistant operations manager. After some negotiating, we reached an agreement and I start my new position on April 9. It’s a much nicer hotel and these...

“To A Stranger”


“Passing stranger! you do not know how

longingly I look upon you, 

You must be he I was seeking, 

or she I was 

seeking, (it comes to me as of a dream,) 

I have somewhere surely lived a life of joy with you, 

All is recall’d as we flit by each other, fluid, 

affectionate, chaste, matured, 

You grew up with me, were a boy with me or a girl with me, 

I ate with you and slept with you, your body 

has become not yours only nor left my 

body mine only, 

You give me the pleasure of your eyes, face, 

flesh, as we pass, you take of my beard, 

breast, hands, in return, 

I am not to speak to you, I am to think of you 

when I sit alone or wake at night alone, 

I am to wait, 

I do not doubt I am to meet you again, 

I am to see to it that I do not lose you.”


(From “Leaves of Grass” in The Harvard Classics)

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