The Necklace

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  “SHE WAS one of those pretty, charming young ladies, born, as if through an error of destiny, into a family of clerks. She had no dowry, no hopes, no means of becoming known, appreciated, loved, and married by a man either rich or distinguished; and she allowed herself to marry a petty clerk in the office of the Board of Education. . . .  She had neither frocks nor jewels, nothing. And she loved only those things. She felt that she was made for them. She had such a desire to please, to be sought after, to be clever, and courted.” —THE NECKLACE Guy de Maupassant    France, 1884 (pic by Grok) Read this short story here:  https://americanliterature.com/author/guy-de-maupassant/short-story/the-necklace

Franklin's Advice for the New Year

America's first "self-made" man, Benjamin Franklin, resolved to improve himself by practicing virtues until they became habit. The beauty of his system is the ability to track failures as much as successes. These names of virtues, with their precepts, are:

1. TEMPERANCE. Eat not to dullness; drink not to elevation. 


2. SILENCE. Speak not but what may benefit others or yourself; avoid trifling conversation. 


3. ORDER. Let all your things have their places; let each part of your business have its time. 


4. RESOLUTION. Resolve to perform what you ought; perform without fail what you resolve. 


5. FRUGALITY. Make no expense but to do good to others or yourself; i. e., waste nothing. 


6. INDUSTRY. Lose no time; be always employ’d in something useful; cut off all unnecessary actions. 


7. SINCERITY. Use no hurtful deceit; think innocently and justly, and, if you speak, speak accordingly. 


8. JUSTICE. Wrong none by doing injuries, or omitting the benefits that are your duty. 


9. MODERATION. Avoid extreams; forbear resenting injuries so much as you think they deserve. 


10. CLEANLINESS. Tolerate no uncleanliness in body, cloaths, or habitation. 


11. TRANQUILLITY. Be not disturbed at trifles, or at accidents common or unavoidable. 


12. CHASTITY. Rarely use venery but for health or offspring, never to dulness, weakness, or the injury of your own or another’s peace or reputation. 


13. HUMILITY. Imitate Jesus and   


From “His Autobiography” by Benjamin Franklin. (1706–1790). 

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