Update

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 Once upon a time , someone asked me if I would be happy working a job that was not at the university. Since my position at the university closed in 2020, I found myself doing exactly that— working in jobs not at the university. It has been a very difficult transition.  Recently, things shifted quickly and in unexpected ways. The short version is that I am leaving the hotel which I am currently working, having taken a position at another.  The longer version of the story is that I stopped by to see my good friend and former GM at his new hotel. While I was visiting with him, one of the owners came out and introduced himself and we got to talking. After a few minutes, he said he wanted me to meet his brother. Our conversation turned into a job interview and 48 hours later I accepted a new position as front desk, manager and assistant operations manager. After some negotiating, we reached an agreement and I start my new position on April 9. It’s a much nicer hotel and these...

Franklin's Advice for the New Year

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America's first "self-made" man, Benjamin Franklin, resolved to improve himself by practicing virtues until they became habit. The beauty of his system is the ability to track failures as much as successes. These names of virtues, with their precepts, are:

1. TEMPERANCE. Eat not to dullness; drink not to elevation. 


2. SILENCE. Speak not but what may benefit others or yourself; avoid trifling conversation. 


3. ORDER. Let all your things have their places; let each part of your business have its time. 


4. RESOLUTION. Resolve to perform what you ought; perform without fail what you resolve. 


5. FRUGALITY. Make no expense but to do good to others or yourself; i. e., waste nothing. 


6. INDUSTRY. Lose no time; be always employ’d in something useful; cut off all unnecessary actions. 


7. SINCERITY. Use no hurtful deceit; think innocently and justly, and, if you speak, speak accordingly. 


8. JUSTICE. Wrong none by doing injuries, or omitting the benefits that are your duty. 


9. MODERATION. Avoid extreams; forbear resenting injuries so much as you think they deserve. 


10. CLEANLINESS. Tolerate no uncleanliness in body, cloaths, or habitation. 


11. TRANQUILLITY. Be not disturbed at trifles, or at accidents common or unavoidable. 


12. CHASTITY. Rarely use venery but for health or offspring, never to dulness, weakness, or the injury of your own or another’s peace or reputation. 


13. HUMILITY. Imitate Jesus and   


From “His Autobiography” by Benjamin Franklin. (1706–1790). 

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