Grief

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Sometimes the news comes quick. Sometimes the news comes slow. No matter how or when it comes, grief travels in the wake of the news. Grief is heavy, weighty, a burden, especially when it involves someone deeply loved. Grief is not meant to be carried alone. It’s too heavy and may last a while—and that’s ok. That’s what family and friends are for, to share the load. Jesus stood outside the tomb of his friend and wept but He did not weep alone. It was a deep, human moment. “ Blessed are those who mourn, for they shall be comforted ” (Matt 5:4). If anyone knows how we feel in grief, it’s Him. But His grief did not linger long, as at the mention of his name, Lazarus came forth. We are not meant to dwell in grief, but should leave room enough for it. Let it run its course. Like the song says, “ Every Storm Runs Out Of Rain .” Another song says, “ The storm We will dance as it breaks The storm It will give as it takes And all of our pain is washed away Don't cry or be afraid Some things...

St. Nicholas Day

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Not so much an American holiday, but our present day (no pun intended) Christmas traditions are connected to this historical figure.

Ἅγιος Νικόλαος (Saint Nicholas) was born in Greek territory in southern Turkey around 270 AD and died on this day in 343 AD. He is buried in Italy (a church is dedicated to his memory there) . . . or in Ireland (as indicated by a tombstone that supposedly marks his grave).

"Obeying Jesus' words to 'sell what you own and give the money to the poor,' Nicholas used his whole inheritance to assist the needy, the sick, and the suffering. He dedicated his life to serving God and was made Bishop of Myra while still a young man. Bishop Nicholas became known throughout the land for his generosity to those in need, his love for children, and his concern for sailors and ships." (St. Nicholas Center)

One fact to remember: in his days, Christians were killed or imprisoned for their faith. Bishop Nicholas did not escape this persecution, experiencing both prison and exile. 

Many stories are shared about how he provided aid for the sick and care for children. Some stories are quite imaginative and fantastic. His most well-remembered acts center on his habit of secretive gift-giving. The fact remains that Saint Nicholas has in some fashion remained an enduring example of faithfulness to care for the needy, the unfortunate, the falsely accused . . . . even sailors. 

If you have the chance to be "Secret Santa" this year, think of how Saint Nicholas might be your role model for giving--what would someone really need? 

Saint Nicholas Saves Three Innocents from Death (oil painting by Ilya Repin, 1888, State Russian Museum).

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